Friday, November 18, 2016

I am ME




All my life, I could never fit in a crowd and believe me I was happy about it. No useless chatter and no usual nonsense. I didn’t have to discuss the next brain wrecking twist in Big Boss or the how the next character in some soap would deceive the next character. I am sure none of us likes to be boxed in a pigeon hole. But are we truly away from it. Apparently not!

With digitization and background analytics forming some decision about your life with every keystroke you press, pigeon-holing is really difficult to avoid and escape. I rarely download games on my android phone, but I like puzzles and crosswords. Recently I was not in a mood to be challenged and wanted something mundane to refocus (more on this technique in another blog). So, I went to search for a simple game, requiring minimal mind power. I couldn’t come across a single game in my first search around – reason – Google assumed I would never want anything else and kept on showing the same type of games, and on my part I didn’t know exactly what would be out there that wasn’t as challenging. After 20 minutes, I downloaded a solitaire game. 

I think, we have to learn to escape from this over analysis of things, done by Google or others or us. We have to just let it be and explore and venture out. Sometimes tread on paths that are not so known. Be unique, break the mould and challenge the norms. Do I really want Google or some analytics engine controlling every aspect of my life, from my sleeping patterns to my eating habits… not really. I would rather let LIFE happen and surprise me. I would be happy in listening to an old random song played on a radio that reminds me of something sweet in the past, rather than some algorithm predicting the type of music I will enjoy. 

I spent the first 15 years of my life escaping the clutches of the society and going to social gatherings and faking a smile. I might have to fight the next few with an algorithm… But I am up for it. Come on. Throw me the best you have and I will still win. 

I am unique

So are you and everyone else

Don’t fall for the trap… have the courage to get lost.

1 comment:

Urvi said...

Feel free and fly. Be in a crowd that you like. M sure there are handful of them. Most important is never let anyone kill the energy and fun in us